KAY COSTLEY-WHITE 

Kay was born in Ottawa, went to high school in England, and obtained her medical degree from the University of London. Returning to Canada , she interned at Toronto General Hospital , and spent a year as a medical resident at Shaughnessy Hospital in Vancouver. She then worked part-time in general practice whilst her children were young. After 13 years in group practice at the Seymour Clinic, she established her own medical office with another female doctor on West Broadway. 

Over the years Kay delivered many babies, and enjoyed the interaction with growing families. She however felt saddened at the lack of emotional and spiritual support provided by hospitals for those at the other end of life. Regretting her own inability to fill this need for her patients and their families, she developed an interest in the holistic approaches of the hospice movement.

 
Once her children were independent, Kay set about educating herself in palliative care, the medical side of hospice. She attended the first of several international conferences, and was inspired by the attitudes of those involved with both clinical work and research. She also had a feeling of profound relief, finding that her previously held concerns about Western medicine's approach to dying were widely shared. While still in her family practice, Kay worked as a physician consultant to Hospice Vancouver, an interdisciplinary team providing home care to persons choosing to spend their last days at home. She then covered for another physician on the Palliative Care Unit at St Paul's Hospital. After this locum stretched to six months, she decided to stay in this field of medicine. On the St Paul's Hospital palliative care team, Kay was part of a large group providing medical care and support for those dying of cancer, AIDS, and other diseases. She also worked at the Palliative Care Unit at St Mary's Hospital in New Westminster. Her teaching skills were recognized in her appointment as Clinical Assistant Professor in the Department of Family Medicine at UBC. Kay has retired early to pursue other interests, but found that she wanted to make some use of her medical and end-of-life knowledge and experience. This wish led to the development of her workshop 'Demystifying Dying'. This personalized course, appropriate for both professional and lay people, investigates pertinent issues for those who are healthy, those with a diagnosis of incurable illness, and their loved ones and caregivers. She travels from her home in the Kootenays to give this workshop.